Monday, October 5, 2015

Is Deep Tissue Massage Right for Me?

It has been my experience not only in my 51 years of life but also in my 8 years as a massage therapist, that more often than not “Less is More”.    The body is designed to be a very efficient and adaptable machine.  That is why exercise routines must change often, sometimes daily, to avoid the dreaded plateau.   Personally, I have found that the standard or traditional high velocity low impact thrusts of chiropractic care to be less effective in comparison  to the more gentle and specific adjustments of the activator directed by the use of muscle testing techniques. 
Also I have found equally as ineffective the use of massage in such a way as to enter the soft muscle tissue abruptly and with enough pressure to cause bruising and extreme pain.  In the world of exercise one may be able to get away with the belief “No pain; No Gain”, though I have my doubts.  But, in the world of massage abrupt deep pressure does not promote long term healing for a variety of reasons. 

1.    Injury or re-injury of tissue
2.    Development of perceived pain relief cycles
3.    Psychological dependence on perceived pain relief cycle
4.    Inhibitor to proper assessment and treatment

 I have often been regaled by my clientele with tales of deep tissue massages that caused bruising, days and even weeks of extreme pain, fever, nausea, muscle contusions, and strained tendons. 

Any of these by themselves is enough to turn the novice from ever receiving massage again, but to those who suffer severe and chronic pain, suffering through one or more of these seems to be a small price to pay for a chance at wellness.   Too often I meet people who have, through no fault of their own, adopted the “No pain, No gain” philosophy in efforts to rid themselves of pain or to help manage their pain.  I will say that pain can come in treating some conditions such as Plantar Fasciitis or some forms of  hip pain, but this pain should be of short duration and not so severe as to cause the client long term after effects.  For the majority of massage treatments techniques should be applied thoughtfully, intelligently, patiently, and gently.   For example, I have personally witnessed a frozen shoulder of 27 years be released gently and pain free.   I myself have helped to eliminate certain forms of hip pain involving overly tight muscles deep in the pelvic bowl.

 Many of the techniques used to achieve pain free release are those that have been used for years, such as myofascial release and PNF stretching.  These techniques are used either as a sole treatment or as part of a protocol.  One such technique is Myofascial Release.  While myofascial release can employ techniques involving deep pressure that delivers considerable pain to its recipient, there are ways to use this time proven technique with little to no pain to the client and yet achieve lasting results.  

Extreme pain during massage also inhibits long term healing by setting up a neuro pathway of perceived pain relief cycles that reads something like this:

Chronic pain
Massage pain
Nerve exhaustion (perceived pain relief)
Induced muscle pain
Chronic pain

Each time a client receives a “deep tissue” massage done incorrectly, this cycle occurs and soon a pattern emerges in which not only does the pain return, but the body comes to expect this and adapts.  The result is years of perceived pain relief that never truly addresses the cause of the pain.  The perceived pain relief is actually nerve exhaustion.  The nerve becomes tired and briefly shuts off.  That is why the same pain returns just a few days later. 

Due to a lack of understanding on both sides of the equation, this perceived pain relief cycle also can set up a type of dependency in which the cause of the pain is never resolved and the client becomes dependent on massage as a form of pain relief rather than finding a pathway to true healing.  It is true that massage performed on a regular basis is beneficial, but not as a sole prescription for relief of chronic pain improperly accessed or treated.    As a natural consequence, it could be years or never that a client’s pain is adequately resolved.  It is therefore, the opinion of this author that to continue massage once the pattern of perceived pain relief is recognized is both unprofessional and unethical.  It is important also to point out here that there are conditions for which massage can be utilized in a healthy professional manner as part of a pain management protocol in conjunction with other medical treatments. 

By contrast, a properly trained and compassionate massage therapist will be able to properly assess a client’s pain and shortly determine if he or she has the skills to promote long term healing.  If not, a referral should be given to a more skilled therapist or another medical disciple altogether.   Thus it becomes the responsibility ultimately for the client to be his/her own health advocate.  Here are a few questions you can ask if you suspect you may be caught in a perceived pain relief pattern.

1.    Why do I have this pain?
2.    Why does my pain return consistently two or three days after massage?
3.    How long will it take for me to begin to experience long term pain relief?
4.    Should I seek medical attention for my pain?

If the answer to any of these questions is “I don’t know”, you might want to consider a visit to the doctor and at the very least seeking out another massage therapist with greater experience.

In conclusion, deep tissue massage if employed with intelligence and thoughtfulness can be highly effective, but done improperly can cause more harm than good.  Is can be VERY frustrating for those in search of pain relief to turn to deep tissue using that old thought pattern of “No pain, No gain”.  But instead, you are encouraged to spend a few precious hours researching  the type of massage you really need and whether or not the establishment you have chosen has on is staff those capable of employing massage properly and effectively.  Unfortunately, western medical persons may or may not be informed enough to answer all your questions concerning massage.  However, they can guide you in the appropriateness of massage for you and may even have massage professionals to which they can refer.

Melissa Jarufe, LMT
September, 2015

Tuesday, July 7, 2015

THE HEALTHY BENEFITS OF EATING LOCALLY

Summertime is a great time to eat healthier, especially with all of the local farmer’s markets in the area. You may not realize this, but eating local saves you money by eliminating the middlemen,  saving on transportation, unnecessary packaging and advertising which can account for at least 20% of total food costs according to Barbara Kingsolver’s book, “Animal, Vegetable, Miracle”. She also states that by buying your food goods from local farmers/businesses rather than national chains, actually generates about three times as much money for your local economy.

Another great thing about buying from a local business or farmer, you can get to know them and find out how the food was raised and produced, plus it tastes better! There are many local farmers who are still committed to chemical-free farming and organic standards even though they can’t afford the extra cost of organic certification. Although many studies have been done, research done by Allison Byrum of the American Chemical Society show that fruits and vegetables grown without pesticides and herbicides contain 50-60% more antioxidants than their sprayed counterparts.

If you’re unsure where to find the nearest farmer’s market closest to you, go to www.localharvest.org or for a network of farmer’s markets in this area, log onto www.northunionfarmersmarket.org. (For those on a limited income, the North Union Farmer’s Markets now accepts SNAP (Supplemental Nutrition Acceptance Program) Cards. SNAP recipients need to bring their EBT cards and must first visit the Market Information table to pick up their tokens.)

So take advantage of the summer’s best harvest from your local farmer’s markets and your neighbors. Not only will you be eating healthier, you will also be supporting your local businesses and economy. It’s a Win-Win for everyone!

Marie Pietras, MT
July 2015

Friday, June 19, 2015

Waterfront Wine Festival

June 20th from 4 pm to sunset!

Great wine, Great food and Great fun!

Veteran's Memorial Park          (Rt.83 /Lake Road, Avon Lake, Ohio)

New Life has been invited to come and  share with you some of the life changing services we have have to offer.  Our therapists and instructors will be on hand to meet you and answer questions.

We will be raffling off two wine baskets, one red and one white, combined with a couples massage or yoga party for you and 15 of your friends.

We will also be hosting a 50/50 raffle with profits going to CRS (Community Resource Services of Avon Lake) and the Food Drive at Learwood Square Plaza July 8th, 6
                                                                      9 pm.


         Come join us this Saturday 

Thursday, June 11, 2015


YOGA IN THE SQUARE

with Julie VanMeter

All Levels Yoga

(on the lawn by Ace Hardware)
Normal Pricing applies.  Dropin's Welcome!
In raining class will be cancelled

Tuesday, June 2, 2015

Neighbor to Neighbor Food Drive



NEIGHBOR to NEIGHBOR FOOD DRIVE

A MUSICAL BLOCK PARTY

WEDNESDAY JULY 8TH 6 - 9 PM

LEARWOOD SQUARE PLAZA, AVON LAKE OHIO


FEATURING

ESSENTIAL GROOVE

LEAD VOCAL: EMILIO JARUFE        LEAD GUITAR: NICK JAMMAL

Suggested Items:

Canned fruit, Canned vegetable, Paper Towels, Toilet Paper, & Green Cleaning Products
Come join the party.  Good heart pounding, foot stomp'in music for everyone!


Saturday, May 30, 2015

Keep Moving Forward





Families and individuals face multiple challenges daily from physical to financial.  My family is no exception!  When I ask my husband “What are we going to do?”  Without hesitation his immediate response is always “just keep moving forward.”  It seems like such a superficial response doesn’t it? Actually, it is very sound advice.  When you are not sure what to do, continue to act in a way that brings you closer to resolution: even if you are not sure what that resolution may be.

I know it sounds strange, but most of us have or are currently suffering from “Atlas Syndrome”.  Atlas was the Greek God charged with holding up the sky.  His task was huge and there was no apparent way of getting out from underneath his terrible burden.  Thus, the Atlas Syndrome is the thought or feeling of being overwhelmed with no end in sight, no way out.    

According to Hans TenDam, Author of “People Make the World”, one way to combat the Atlas syndrome is to minimize this feeling of powerlessness.   The more we act to resolve a stressful situation the more we feel empowered.  “Just Keep Moving Forward”. 

Whatever your challenge, New Life is here to help you keep moving forward.  We have a variety of services to help keep the creative juices flowing from yoga to massage to meditation and more.  Our goal is to help you “Keep Moving Forward”!

Melissa Jarufe, LMT
June 2015

Join Mesha Moor and a few of your neighbors in a life changing course in Mantra Meditation.  It begins this Sunday or Monday  (May 31st/June 1st).  It is truly 6 weeks that will change your life!

http://www.madelinemiller.com/tag/hercules/

Monday, May 11, 2015

Six Week Mantra Meditation Course!


  

Have you ever wanted to develop your own meditation practice but just did not know how to start? 


You are cordially invited to join Mesha Moor in this six week Mantra Meditation Course that will teach you to have control of your life rather than letting your life control you. Mesha will teach you mantras to help you feel energized and reduce your stress and anxiety.

Through mantra meditation positive vibrations are created that bring us peace and joy. In the first class we will plant a seed.

Join us to find out why planting a seed is the perfect metaphor for our meditation class.

Classes are once per week on either of the following days:
Sunday May 31st - Sunday July 5th
Monday June 1st - Monday July 6th

 Cost: $108 for 6 week course
Click Here to Enroll Today!


Thursday, March 12, 2015

APRIL IS NATIONAL HUMOR MONTH, SO “UP YOUR LAUGHTER QUOTIENT.”

LAUGH LONG AND LOUD. A robust rib- rattler improves not only your mood, but also your health. The physical act of laughing helps you stay alert, makes it easier to cope and lets you maintain your sanity when the world gets a little crazy. 

ADMIT YOU’RE HUMAN...laugh at yourself. People who have mastered Living-101 take their work seriously but not themselves. Knowing the difference gives you the keys to the kingdom.

UP YOUR LAUGHTER QUOTIENT. Nothing may be more important to your health and happiness. It has been said the average American laughs 15 times daily. SO eat your broccoli and get a megadose of Vitamin L every day. 

GENERATE MIRTH wherever you go. Good humor is the best social lubricant. It smoothes understanding, communication and cooperation. Make it your mission to elicit as many smiles as you can each day. 

HELP YOURSELF SUCCEED without stressing out. Humor is nature’s antidote for tension. Let it be your secret weapon when you’re up to your eyeballs in alligators. It’s fast, it’s fun, it’s free. No other stress buster can make this claim! 

TAKE YOUR FUNNY BONE TO WORK (or to the Senior Center). Instigate laughter on the job. Treating co-workers with respect and a sense of mirth does miracles for teamwork and trust. 

EMBRACE THE NOTION that humor is NOT incompatible with dignity and stature. Humor is the hole that lets the hot air out of a stuffed shirt. Follow the lead of Lincoln, Reagan and JFK who knew that humor is vital in overcoming adversity. 

REMEMBER THAT LAUGHTER and longevity go hand in hand. Grumps don’t live longer—it just seems like it. A buoyant outlook may be more important than oat bran and pushups, and it’s a lot easier to take. So get in the zone: Love life, laugh a lot, last longer. 


Reprinted with permission. © 2004 by Larry Wilde, author of When You’re Up To Your Eyeballs in Alligators-Jester Press, and founder of National Humor  Compliments of Steve Wilson, Director, National Humor Month (April) - 1-800-NOW-LAFF 


http://www.humormonth.com/LAUGHTER-poster.pdf

Tuesday, January 27, 2015

Couples Massage



The Relationship Benefits of a Couples Massage


If there’s one i can say with certainty about my man it’s that he enjoys a good massage. And heck, I don’t blame him; I’m a sucker for a great rubdown too. I’ve written several articles in the past about all the health benefits of massages (trust me, there’s a whole laundry list of ‘em!). This time, however, I wanted to explore a lesser talked about aspect: the relationship benefits of a couples massage.
Specifically, I wanted to find out firsthand how — or if — a couples massage could help our love life, not just physically, but emotionally as well. Thus, as any good researcher would do, I spoke with a few experts and booked an appointment for us over at the renownedExhale Spa in Hollywood. Read on to see if our actual experience supported the facts!

The facts: A couples massage helps you reconnect.

Often, couples are busy and find little time to be alone without worrying about what they need to get done or haven’t gotten done that day, notes Esther Boykin, a licensed marriage and family therapist and co-founder of Group Therapy Associates. “But during a massage session, people are almost instinctually driven to let go of the past and the future and turn their attention to the present moment. This practice of being fully engaged in an activity together that can help couples reconnect, and with a little effort, they can bring that same level of mindful awareness to their time outside of the massage,” she says.

In our experience this is…pretty darn accurate!

We were 20 minutes late getting to Exhale (that’s LA traffic for you), so I remember bickering a bit back and forth on the way there about that. As soon as we got changed into our bathrobes and were lying in a bed full of pillows waiting for our massage therapists back in the spa’s zen lounge, all of our worries seemed to melt away. Seriously, it was like we weren’t annoyed at each other at all anymore and our massages hadn’t even started! We just wanted to cuddle up on that ridiculously cozy bed, relaxed and giddy with anticipation at the thought of a much-needed hour-long massage. I have to say, the argument from earlier that morning was never mentioned again.

The facts: A couples massage increases feeling of affection.

According to Stef Safran, dating expert and owner of Chicago matchmaking and social networking service Stef and the City, massages stimulate the release of many feel-good hormones, which boost feelings of intimacy and affection. “Most notably, touch increases oxytocin (otherwise known as the ‘cuddle-chemical’), as well as serotonin and dopamine,” he explains. “So basically, a couple's massage is pretty much a scientific love potion.”

In our experience this is…so true.

As I mentioned above, we were feeling super snuggly prior to the whole massage part. After an amazing full body rubdown though, it’s no surprise that we literally couldn’t quit smiling or keep our hands off of each other. We shared a quick kiss (okay, like five), before heading straight back to the zen lounge for some more cuddle time. If we hadn’t been starving, we probably would have stayed at Exhale all day! Ah, the relaxation…

The Facts: A couples massage makes you want to get it on.

“A massage causes all of the muscles in your body to relax, which, in turn, relaxes your mind,” points out Carole Lieberman, M.D., relationship expert and author of Bad Girls: Why Men Love Them & How Good Girls Can Learn Their Secrets. “This makes you feel less anxious about being with your partner on an emotional and a sexual level. Plus, massages stop short of orgasm (or at least they’re supposed to), leaving you hovering on the brink and ready for your lover to complete the act.”

In our experience this is…right on point.

Um, not going to lie. My boyfriend did propose we do it right there on the table afterward. We didn’t of course, but things definitely heated up in the bedroom later on that day!

The Facts: A couples massage encourages bonding.

“Research tells us that partners who continue to inject novelty into their relationships have closer, more rewarding bonds,” details couples therapist Dr. Holly Cox of Lotus Therapy Center in Raleigh, NC. “I think couples massage, for couples in which both partners find the idea interesting, can offer an avenue to that shared adventure.”

In our experience this is…spot on.

My boyfriend and I have always made it a habit to try new things together, whether it be a couples massage or a restaurant that just opened up in town. This helps spice things up in our relationship and brings us closer. Two weeks later and we’re still yapping about how awesome our massages at Exhale were (seriously, can we go back already?). It’s an experience we’ll never forget and a fond memory we’ll hold near and dear to our hearts.
http://www.thefashionspot.com/life/328285-the-relationship-benefits-of-a-couples-massage/

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Weekly Meditations

"Find the Silence Within"
Beginning December 14, 2014
With Mesha Moor

Through meditation we take a personal journey to discover our own truth, power, and wisdom. In class, the goal of this meditation is to be comfortable and relaxed. The Meditation class is 60 minutes.

Mesha Moor studied and lived in India from 200 to 2012 and is a certified teacher and healer of this ancient knowledge.

All are welcome. No experience needed.

Each Class is $12.00

Sundays from 1:30pm to 2:30pm

Location: New Life Massage & Whole Living Solutions
379 Lear Road (Learwood Square Plaza)
Avon Lake, Ohio 44035

All of December get your first class for only $9.00

Call 330-818-5536 or email mesha@meshamoor.com to reserve your spot

Tuesday, December 2, 2014

Happy & Healthy Through the Holidays (and after!)

Who doesn't want to be Happy and Healthy for the Holidays? And how about after the holidays? On average, American adults gain 10 pounds over the holidays and struggle to take it off after the holidays. Since excess weight is a prime risk factor for chronic disease and cancers, we need to stay on track and enjoy new healthy habits instead of falling into old "traditions." 

Join Registered Dietitian, Tanna Torkelson, for a workshop focused on staying on track through the holiday season. Not only will you get geared up for healthy holiday celebrations but you will gain new healthy habits, recipes, and tricks that are much more enjoyable than dieting after the New Year!

Workshops last 60 minutes and cost $20 per participant. There will be a complementary session for 1 hour following the main workshop to discuss general healthy eating guidelines that will be geared toward specialty diets. We will address diabetes, heart disease, food allergies, and how to stay on top of your nutritional recommendations through the holiday season. Register for the first workshop and stay for the second if you would like.

December 7th at 2:30pm
Register online at www.threadsofwellness.com 
or call (612) 361-9642

Stay happy & healthy with new traditions 

Tuesday, November 11, 2014

Emotional Freedom Technique

What is the Emotional Freedom Technique?

The Emotional Freedom Technique, or EFT, is the psychological acupressure technique I routinely use in my practice and most highly recommend to optimize your emotional health. Although it is still often overlooked, emotional health is absolutely essential to your physical health and healing - no matter how devoted you are to the proper diet and lifestyle, you will not achieve your body's ideal healing and preventative powers if emotional barriers stand in your way.

EFT is very easy to learn, and will help you:


  • Remove Negative Emotions
  • Reduce Food Cravings
  • Reduce or Eliminate Pain
  • Implement Positive Goals
EFT is a form of psychological acupressure, based on the same energy meridians used in traditional acupuncture to treat physical and emotional ailments for over five thousand years, but without the invasiveness of needles. Instead, simple tapping with the fingertips is used to input kinetic energy onto specific meridians on the head and chest while you think about your specific problem - whether it is a traumatic event, an addiction, pain, etc. -- and voice positive affirmations.
This combination of tapping the energy meridians and voicing positive affirmation works to clear the "short-circuit" - the emotional block -- from your body's bioenergy system, thus restoring your mind and body's balance, which is essential for optimal health and the healing of physical disease.
Some people are initially wary of these principles that EFT is based on - the electromagnetic energy that flows through the body and regulates our health is only recently becoming recognized in the West. Others are initially taken aback by (and sometimes amused by) the EFT tapping and affirmation methodology, whose basics you will learn here.
But keep in mind that, more than any traditional or alternative method I have used or researched, EFT works. I have witnessed the results in my patients since deciding to use EFT exclusively in June of 2001. Indeed, because of its very high rate of success, the use of EFT has spread rapidly, and medical practitioners employing EFT can now be found in every corner of the country and world.
This manual will provide an overview on how and where to tap, and the proper affirmation techniques, so that you can begin using EFT immediately to help yourself and others. It will also provide an introduction to some advanced EFT techniques and principles you can employ.

There are two basic areas to learn in order to use EFT: the tapping locations and technique, and the positive affirmations. These areas, as well as some advanced EFT principles and techniques, are covered in the following sections.
You should be able to successfully treat many problems by diligently applying the following instructions.
If you are not getting the results you would like, or you have a particularly traumatic issue, please do not give up! Instead, consider consulting with an EFT professional. You may check out this clinical EFT certified practitioner database for some guidelines on selecting an EFT therapist, and to find a list of EFT practitioners throughout the U.S. and the world. Many of these therapists even offer a free 15-minute phone session in which you can ask them questions to see if you connect.

Proper EFT Tapping

The basic EFT sequence is straightforward and generally takes my patients only a few minutes to learn. They have the slight advantage of me personally showing them the tapping points, but you should be able to pick up these points relatively quickly. With a little practice, you will be performing each round in under a minute.
NOTE: While it is important to tap the correct area, you need not worry about being absolutely precise, as tapping the general area is sufficient.

It's All in the Fingertips

The first thing to understand is that you will be tapping with your fingers. There are a number of acupuncture meridians on your fingertips, and when you tap with your fingertips you are also likely using not only the meridians you are tapping on, but also the ones on your fingers.
Traditional EFT has you tapping with the fingertips of your index finger and middle finger and with only one hand. Either hand works just as well. Most of the tapping points exist on either side of the body, so it doesn't matter which side you use, nor does it matter if you switch sides during the tapping. For example, you can tap under your right eye and, later in the tapping, under your left arm.
I modified this approach slightly by having you use both hands and all your fingers, so that they are gently relaxed and form a slightly curved natural line. The use of more fingers allows you to access more of the acupuncture points. When you use all your fingers you will cover a larger area than just tapping with one or two fingertips, and this will allow you to cover the tapping points more easily.
However, many obtain quite successful results with the traditional one-handed two-finger approach. You can use either method, but I tend to use my modified version in an effort to be more complete.
Ideally, you will want to use your fingertips, not your finger pads as they have more meridian points. However, if you have long fingernails you should use your finger pads.
You should also remove your watch and bracelets, as that will interfere with your use of the wrist meridian tapping.

Tap Solidly - But Don't Hurt Yourself!

You should tap solidly, but never so hard as to hurt or bruise yourself.
If you decide to use both hands, I recommend slightly alternating the tapping so that each hand is slightly out of phase with the other and you are not tapping with both hands simultaneously. This provides a kinesthetic variant of the alternating eye movement work that is done in EMDR and may have some slight additional benefit.
When you tap on the points outlined below, you will tap about 5-7 times. The actual number is not critical, but ideally should be about the length of time it takes for one full breath. There is probably a distinct benefit for tapping through one complete respiration cycle.
Please notice that these tapping points proceed down the body. That is, each tapping point is below the one before it. That should make it a snap to memorize. A few trips through it and it should be yours forever. However, unlike TFT, the sequence is not critical. You can tap the points in any order and sequence, just so long as all the points are covered. It just is easier to go from top to bottom to make sure you remember to do them all.

Remove your Glasses and Watch Prior to Tapping

Glasses and watches can mechanically and electromagnetically interfere with EF, so I advise everyone to remove them prior to tapping. For quick sessions conducted upon yourself, this is not critical, as you can easily tap around them, but I think there is always a benefit to removing them when possible.

Using EFT in Public: Eliminating any Embarrassment

Many people are concerned about embarrassing themselves by using EFT in public, especially when implementing my revision of it, which really makes one stand out in a crowd.
After a while of using and perfecting the technique - in private quarters, if you prefer - you will be able to use only two fingers of one hand, and to say the affirmation softly under your breath or silently. This way you can do EFT in just about any social setting, and if people even notice what you are doing at all, it will appear to them that you are merely thinking.

For the full article go to :  http://eft.mercola.com/

Thursday, November 6, 2014

3 Best Essential Oils For Cold And Flu

Cure a case of the sniffles—naturally




Cool weather makes you more vulnerable to viruses. To fight back, pump moisture into your airspace.
The reason: Viruses that spark colds and flu thrive when it's cool and dry. Low humidity dries out nasal passages, making it harder to trap and eliminate the microbugs. Help moisten passages by running a humidifier 24/7—but keep it clean per the manufacturer's instructions. I add five drops of oregano, eucalyptus, or peppermint oil to my humidifier's reservoir to reduce germs and freshen the air. (A whiff of peppermint can also soothe stress.)
A steamy 15-minute bath or shower helps, too. Drip 10 drops of essential oil into the tub or onto a washcloth placed on the shower floor. Breathe in deeply. (Get more ingredients for a blissful bath, here.)



The best essential oils for easy colds:
Peppermint: Relieves headaches caused by congestion
Eucalyptus: Decongestant; soothes respiratory problems
Oregano: Proven antibacterial; fights sinus infections
TIERAONA LOW DOG MD, is the author of Life Is Your Best Medicine.

http://www.prevention.com/health/health-concerns/best-essential-oils-cold-and-flu

Reiki

What is Reiki?
Reiki is a Japanese technique for relaxation which assists in re-balancing and unblocking the flow of life force energy of everyone's body. A Reiki experience is a calm, peaceful, and safe method of self- improvement for the mind, body, and spirit. Valued for leaving its recipients with feelings of decreased levels of stress and increased well being. 

Benefits of Reiki
- Relaxation. Feeling relaxed can help relieve stress, agitation, acute and chronic pain.
- It can assist in promoting improved sleep patterns
- It can help to strengthen the immune system
- Reiki compliments medical and therapeutic techniques to promote recovery and healing within
- It improves centering/ balance/ focus. 

Sheila Buchanan, Reiki Master
Call today for your appointment : 216-215-4713

20 Scientifically-Backed Ways To De-Stress

What's your stress "tell?" For some, a quickened heart rate or a slight feeling of queasiness is enough to let them know they're getting anxious or overwhelmed. But just as a slight from your boss or bad news from a family member can get your stress hormones pumping and your blood pressure rising quickly, you have the power to reset almost instantly. When we're stressed, hormones like cortisol flood our systems, producing the "fight or flight response" in which our heart rate goes up, we breathe more heavily (requiring more oxygen) and our blood vessels constrict. While in the pre-civilization world, the increased blood flow to our heart and muscles helped us escape from predators and dangerous situations, we find ourselves in a very different position now. Our bodies can't tell the difference between an approaching grizzly bear and a ticked off spouse or a particularly epic traffic jam, so our stress response is triggered when there's no imminent danger. Instead of helping us to escape, this can contribute to chronic conditions like hypertension and headaches, as well as mental health concerns like depression and anxiety disorders. What's more, stress can make other conditions -- like asthma, irritable bowel syndrome and insomnia -- worse. The good news? Just as we have a stress response, we also have a "relaxation response," during which your breathing slows, your blood pressure decreases and you even use less oxygen, reports the NIH’s National Center for Complementary and Alternative Medicine. We don't really have a choice when it comes to getting stressed -- we may as well work to undo its effects. With that in mind, here are 20 ways, backed up by good scientific evidence, to keep your stress in check:
Go For A 10 Minute Walk

While just about any walk will help to clear your head and boost endorphins (which, in turn, reduces stress hormones), consider walking in a park or other green space, which can actually put your body into a state of meditation, thanks to a phenomenon known as “involuntary attention” during which something holds our attention, but simultaneously allows for reflection.
Breathe Deeply
Any yogi knows that the breath -- known as pranayama or “life force” -- plays an important role in nourishing the body. And medical researchers agree. “Breathing exercises can help you relax, because they make your body feel like it does when you are already relaxed,” explains WebMD. Breathing exercises -- or even just taking a few deep breaths -- can help reduce tension and relieve stress, thanks to an extra boost of oxygen. While shallow breathing -- a marker of stress -- stimulates the sympathetic nervous system, reported NPR, deep breathing does the opposite: It stimulates the parasympathetic reaction, which helps us to calm down. What’s more, breathing exercises have been proven in clinical research to aid some of the systems that are harmed by stress: They can reduce blood pressure and may even be able to change the expression of some genes, according to Harvard researcher Herbert Benson.
Visualize

A short visualization is an easy way to get back to center. Even the National Institutes for Health recognizes the power of “guided imagery” to elicit a relaxation response.
Simply make yourself comfortable (at your desk, in an empty conference room -- wherever!) and then try to picture a peaceful scene: a future vacation, your favorite beach. You can even visualize yourself accomplishing a future goal or, as Women’s Health magazine puts it, “picture yourself in an elevator, happily sandwiched between two hot actors of your choice.”
Eat A Snack (Mindfully!)
Stress-eating doesn’t have to be bad.
"The connection between the gut and brain is huge -- called the 'gut-brain axis' -- and lots of interesting data supports the idea that the gut is a major mediator of the stress response,” Dr. Drew Ramsey, an assistant clinical professor of Psychiatry at Columbia University College of Physicians & Surgeons and the author of The Happiness Diettold The Huffington Post earlier this year. “After all, stress is a brain and immune system mediated phenomena, and your gut is the largest organ in your immune system." Pick a snack that will fill you up -- say, half an avocado, a handful of nuts or a hard boiled egg -- because nothing is more stressful to the brain, Ramsey explains, than feeling like you’ve run out of nourishment. Take your snack away from your computer and go sit someplace peaceful. Focus on your food: its texture, the way it tastes, how it makes you feel. Now you’ve turned your snack into a meditation.
Buy Yourself A Plant

Houseplants aren’t just beautiful air purifiers -- they can actually help you calm down. Researchers have found that simply being around plants can induce your relaxation response. One Washington State University study found that a group of stressed-out people who entered a room full of plants had a four-point drop in their blood pressure, while a comparison group who didn’t see plants dropped only two points, Prevention magazine reported.Need some advice on what to buy? Here’s a guide to houseplants that de-stress your home (or office!)
Step Away From The Screen
Uninterrupted computer use has been associated with stress, lost sleep and depression in women, according to a study from the University of Gothenburg, Sweden. In the same study, late night computer use was also associated with stress -- in both men and women.
Make sure to take frequent breaks during your day of computer use -- and try to shut offline at least an hour before bedtime.
Pucker Up

Kissing relieves stress by helping your brain to release endorphins, reports WebMD. And that has real-life implications: In a study of 2,000 couples, Northwestern University researcher Laura Berman, Ph.D., found that those who only kissed when they had sex were eight times more likely to report feeling chronically stressed or depressed.
Try This Naam Yoga Hand Trick

Applying pressure to the space between your second and third knuckle (the joints at the base of your pointer and middle fingers) can help to create a sense of instant calm, according to Sharon Melnick, author of Success Under Stress.
"It activates a nerve that loosens the area around the heart, so any of that fluttery feeling you feel when you're nervous will end up going away," Melnick told Business Insider.
Hang Up, Then Turn Off Your Phone
Cell phones stress you out, there’s no question about that. Talking can even raise your blood pressure.
Put On Some Music
While classical music has a particularly soothing effect -- it slows heart rate, lowers blood pressure and even decreases levels of stress hormones -- any music that you love will flood your brain with feel-good neurochemicals like dopamine.And while music can soothe everyday anxiety (crank it up on the drive home!), research shows that it’s particularly beneficial for those in the midst of stressful events, like surgery.Don’t have your headphones handy? Try humming or making your own music. One study of stressed-out nursing students found that recreational music-making relieved stress and prevented burnout.
Treat Yourself! Eat One (ONE!) Candy

Eating or drinking something sweet is soothing because it stems the production of the stress hormone, glucocorticoid (which helps explain why we find ourselves staring down the barrel of an empty cookie package when things go haywire). While not an excuse to unleash your emotional eating on the office vending machine, a Hershey’s Kiss, peppermint candy or other reasonably-sized treat, can help.
Or, On The Other Hand, Plug In
Yes, screens can stress you out. But used in the right way, there’s no reason you can’t turn to the Internet to get a little stress relief. A Cleveland Clinic study found that web-based stress management programs, like guided meditation, decreased stress levels and boosted scores emotional well-being in a group of 300 healthy adults, Healthy Living’s Amanda L. Chan reported.
Chew A Piece Of Gum
Chewing gum doesn’t just make your breath better -- it can relieve anxiety, improve alertness and reduce stress during episodes of multitasking, according to a 2008 study.
Watch A Viral Video
A good laugh is a fine relaxation technique. “Laughter enhances your intake of oxygen-rich air, stimulates your heart, lungs and muscles, and increases the endorphins that are released by your brain,” explains the Mayo Clinic.Counterintuitively, laughter first activates your stress response and then deactivates it, creating a kind of “rollercoaster” that leads to a feeling of relaxation.What’s more, even if you don’t find the viral video your uncle Joe sent you to be thatfunny, just the anticipation that it might be will actually boost endorphins.
Progressive Muscle Relaxation
Start with your toes and work your way up: tighten your foot muscles as much as you can, then relax them. Make your way up, tightening and relaxing each muscle until you’ve finished with your face. It may seem silly, but this practice can help reduce anxiety and stress and is often recommended to patients who suffer from depression and anxiety disorders.
Seriously, Turn Off Your Phone
Smartphones, in particular, are linked to increased stress, as more and more people feel pressure to respond to messages at all times.
See Your BFF
Friends aren’t just fun -- your very closest ones can actually reduce your production of cortisol, according to a study in middle school aged children. We think the same holds true for adult besties. And psychologists agree.
Eat A Banana (Or A Potato!)
Potassium helps to regulate blood pressure, which rises during times of stress. Some people find that eating a banana when they’re feeling stressed can help improve energy and recovery. And research shows that it can protect your body from the negative effects of stress, like increased risk of heart attack and stroke. The American Psychological Association recommends it to stave off the physical detriments of stress as well.
Try Eagle Pose
Many yoga poses are known stress relievers, as they open the shoulders, relieve neck tension and do away with many of the physical symptoms of stress.Eagle pose is a prime example of how a brief asana can target back and neck tension.Learn how to do the pose here.
Craft
Repetitive motions -- like the fine motor skills used to knit, make jewelry or cross-stitch -- can soothe anxiety, according to avid knitter and pediatrician, Perri Klass, M.D. Mindfulness expert Dr. Herbert Benson agrees: Knitting fulfills the two criteria of mindfulness practice, as he sees it: "the repetition of a sound, word, phrase prayer, or movement, and the passive setting aside of intruding thoughts and returning to the repetition."

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